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rikoku wrote:ok, all those who live in the UK or near by know that teenage pregnancy is on the increase, so, i thought it would be a good idea to see everyones opinion on when its suitable to lose their virginity.

is when theyr married? after school? or ASAP? your opinions please.

Well, I was brought up thinking that I should wait until I'm married. And it does make sense when you think about it. I mean, if you're one of those people who think that sex is something sacred and that you should only have sex with someone you love, then yeah, that'd be the way to go. BUT in my opinion, in order to get into a happy marriage (that is if you are planning to get married) that won't end up in a divorce or unhappiness, you'll need to know how your partner is in bed. Lol, I know that sounds funny...but, I think it's true. I mean, seriously, half of the attraction between two people is physical, and don't you dare say you disagree, cause you'd be lying. I think that one should be well experienced before marriage, so that it'll be easier for him/her to be able to tell if they've found the right person. I presonally don't believe in marriage at the moment, so in my opinion, what's the point in waiting. But I'll tell you this, with being sexually involved with somene, comes GGRRRRRREEEEEAAAAAT responsibilites. So, you might want to think twice before you start having sex if you're below 18.

A friend of mine got pregnant while still in highschool (grade 11, she was a year younger than me) and now she's living by herself, she's out of school, and she's lost everyone's respect (even though she shouldn't have...it's kinda sad how people react to this sort of thing) I don't even get to see her anymore.

Anyway, and for you guys who think that, oh well, I can't POSSIBLY get preganant, I'll tell you something....you CAN!.............................lol, kidding, no you can't. But you'll get one heavy load on your shoulder.

Oh and you all know about STD's and blahblahs, so i won't go into that.

Oh and by the way, just in case anyone here (any of the girls) does have sex without protection, and gets worried whether they're pregnant or whatnot, there's this 72 hour pill you can take. But you'll have to make sure that you take it sometime in the next 72 hours. I don't know if that would go against your morality, but for those of you whose lives would be over, there. (and no, I've never had to take one, I know through a friend of mine.)

Well, in the end, all I've got to say is, safe sex all the way. And girls, don't rely on birth control pills or start taking them at a young age.



lol, uuuuhhhh, don't be scared though. Sex isn't all that scary lol.

Sex is fun.

i agree with anner. but, if love is mostly physical, than sure there are some people in the world that would live happily wothout sex, and just enjoy the comapny of the man/woman of their dreams and abstain, even after marrige, right?

anner's rite. but u noe, the thot of sex is kinda scary becoz sumtimes ppl just get adicted to it. i'd realli like to think of it as how u described it rikoku, but..

i agree with anner. but, if love is mostly physical, than sure there are some people in the world that would live happily wothout sex, and just enjoy the comapny of the man/woman of their dreams and abstain, even after marrige, right?

i don't think it's the same for everyone.

tis a shame. and sex can be addicting. i knew this guy in highschool, and he... (in spoiler due to grossness) :sick:

and he would have sex with anything with legs, so, i think id sooner stay virgin than turn into said victim

Vedder wrote:Sex is fun.

lol!! I'd like to hear what you think about this whole subject as well Vedder. So tell us chico, whatchyou think?

rikoku wrote:i agree with anner. but, if love is mostly physical, than sure there are some people in the world that would live happily wothout sex, and just enjoy the comapny of the man/woman of their dreams and abstain, even after marrige, right?

Nono, I never said it was *mostly* physical. In my opinion in order to be TRULY in love, one needs physical attraction as well. Now there are different ways for one to achieve that sort of thing. I mean, two people can fall in love emotionally or with each other's personalities first, and then find physical attraction, or vice versa, or etc. There are many ways, but in the end physical attraction IS needed.

Mmmm, now about the whole some people can go on without sex, I totally agree with you rikoku. Even married couples stop having sex at some point (some of them that is, lol) and you're right, it has nothing to do with them not finding each other attractive anymore or whatnot. I mean, yes, people can stay married, and continue their lives without sex and stuff. But even in that situation, they should find each other attractive in some way for them to feel like they don't need to have sex in order to satisfy each other.

But yes, you're right, it's absolutely possible, and a lot of people do it. lol, but I guess that there's always that thought that "well, even though I haven't had sex with him in a while, he's still a freak in bed." lol, don't know how to explain any better, but um, yeah that's what I think

But what do you think about the whole sex thing? Do you think there should be some age restriction or something? (or marriage?)

oh and what you said about that sex addict, ew. That's gross.

anime_rox666 wrote:anner's rite. but u noe, the thot of sex is kinda scary becoz sumtimes ppl just get adicted to it. i'd realli like to think of it as how u described it rikoku, but..

i don't think it's the same for everyone.

In my opinion, the only way someone could get addicted would be if they were a lazy nobody, who had too much free time on their hands. So as long as you keep yourself busy with life, I really don't think you need to worry about getting addicted to sex.

Also, a lot of people get addicted because they don't get enough satisfaction for their emotional needs.




Anyway, lol. None of the stuff I said has been scientifically proven or anything though (lol, sorry if it sounded that way), sooooo...don't like, do anything drastic just because of something I said all the stuff I just said were all just opinions. lol.

In my opinion, the only way someone could get addicted would be if they were a lazy nobody, who had too much free time on their hands. So as long as you keep yourself busy...

Yes - keep your hands busy, lol.

lol!! I'd like to hear what you think about this whole subject as well Vedder. So tell us chico, whatchyou think?

Bah I dont even think it's an issue/subject..
Just do whatever feels right for both people.

A lot of the time physical attraction is a biproduct of emotional attachment.

Vedder wrote:Rape is not hot on porn sites, Atomosk. My opinion of you decreased by like...gee, 100%

i think it's hot because i know it's not real. they are but actors. don't hate me for my fetishes!

all i say is you should lose your virginity to some one you care deeply for, eith some one you have a bond with so that the person doesn't screwyou over, after. after all most firsts are the one you remember the most

Atomosk wrote:

Vedder wrote:Rape is not hot on porn sites, Atomosk. My opinion of you decreased by like...gee, 100%

i think it's hot because i know it's not real. they are but actors. don't hate me for my fetishes!

So your proud you have a fetish for rape-pornography?


Uhm...er..wtf?

rape porn, is not funny. not even to joke about. and i dont want it mentioning in this thread.

Pirogoeth wrote:rape porn, is not funny. not even to joke about. and i dont want it mentioning in this thread.

Was I joking? Did it look like I was joking? No, I wasn't. My bad but I really had the impression this was for other adult discussions. So, honestly I don't get how there was anything upsetting or uncalled for, unless that is...you're a rape-pornography actor/actress?

Er...so just explain before you say something can't be brought up in discussion.


Thanks.

Mai wrote:

Pirogoeth wrote:rape porn, is not funny. not even to joke about. and i dont want it mentioning in this thread.

Was I joking? Did it look like I was joking? No, I wasn't. My bad but I really had the impression this was for other adult discussions. So, honestly I don't get how there was anything upsetting or uncalled for, unless that is...you're a rape-pornography actor/actress?

Er...so just explain before you say something can't be brought up in discussion.


Thanks.

true, but pirogoeth is right, this is off-topic. my closing comments:
1. rape isn't the only thing i'm into. there's plenty of other things that don't make me look like BTK
2. i'm not proud of my fetish, but i am not ashamed. i have a right to it, and you have a right to tell me it's wrong, but i have a right to ignore you, so let's drop it.
3. simply put, i can discuss rape-pornography as i damn well please, so long as it's on the adult or hentai board. though it is not the subject at hand. i kinda got us off-subject; sorry
3. the subject at hand is views on virginity. so let's continue with said conversation.

if you want to keep talking about me on the whole rape-thing, PM me, please.

Atomosk wrote:

Mai wrote:

Pirogoeth wrote:rape porn, is not funny. not even to joke about. and i dont want it mentioning in this thread.

Was I joking? Did it look like I was joking? No, I wasn't. My bad but I really had the impression this was for other adult discussions. So, honestly I don't get how there was anything upsetting or uncalled for, unless that is...you're a rape-pornography actor/actress?

Er...so just explain before you say something can't be brought up in discussion.


Thanks.

true, but pirogoeth is right, this is off-topic. my closing comments:
1. rape isn't the only thing i'm into. there's plenty of other things that don't make me look like BTK
2. i'm not proud of my fetish, but i am not ashamed. i have a right to it, and you have a right to tell me it's wrong, but i have a right to ignore you, so let's drop it.
3. simply put, i can discuss rape-pornography as i damn well please, so long as it's on the adult or hentai board. though it is not the subject at hand. i kinda got us off-subject; sorry
3. the subject at hand is views on virginity. so let's continue with said conversation.

if you want to keep talking about me on the whole rape-thing, PM me, please.

Lmao! Love you didn't have to explain yourself for the rape-pornography!I honesty don't care. But what is said about how he didn't want people to bring it up is absurd! completely bogus! It has much to do with virginity. Everything with sex has to do with your virginity. It's a matter of what you read in this thread. Will it swing you to be a nun ro a priest or will you do what you wish, with who you wish.

well i would say that its a really wise choice to lose it after marrage
this is the best idea, and even if u do have sex with protection its nt 100% positive that u wont get pregnent cz u can still get pragnent even theo u use protection.
For me i havent done any thing stupid yet!! nt even kissed a guy ... i knw it should's crazy but i have made my mind that i wont do any thing stupid cz i'm more into my studies and i dnt have time for stupid guys
I'll jst save my self after the marriage if i want to do it that is then i will let him knw... I'm nt really the sex type of person cz i dnt like talkin abut this topic i find it funny it jst crecks me up

IT'S ALLRIGHT TO LOSE UR VIRGINITY.. BUT NOT UR SELF ESTEEM AND SELF RESPECT...USE A RUBBER IF UR A MAN AND DONT LET HIM CUM IF UR A WOMAN ^_^